Monday, March 28, 2011

short and sweet

We've had a bunch of good solid lessons with new investigators and i'm begining to love Bozeman! It snowed again yesterday though :/ Another 4 inches or so. I'm SOOO ready for it to get sunny again for sure!! Ha


So the other Elders (Hamblin, Seymore & Buckman) slept over last night. This morning I made them all lil' smokie and egg breakfast burritos since NONE of them have money on their cards or food, and then creamed them all in ping pong and then spent the rest of the morning at the house cleaning and shoveling the driveway! Good productive morning for sure :) I love doing stuff for them and DOIN' WORK!

Went to my first eagle court of honor on my mission. For Chase! He is an awesome young man and it was awesome to go and regonize him and to remember my ceremony as well.

I'm excited for Conference this weekend and will definitely miss making and eating crepes in between sessions :/

Well, i'm off to go get a hair cut and to help someone move and have some fun! Love you all and wish you well!!

Love,
Elder Parr

Saturday, March 26, 2011

New area...New companion...Same work!

So this week wasn't too shabby! WAYYY different from Hamilton for sure! This past week was spring break for the campus so the town was like EMPTY! It was ridiculously slow for sure. I cover the Bozeman 1st Ward and the University Ward here as well! Going to church was great yesterday and got to meet TONS of people! The University Ward here is pretty solid! They have about 50 students that come! They had me bear my testimony and bless the sacrament on Sunday and it looks like I might be playing the piano for priesthood each week for them. The Bozeman Ward is pretty great as well with lots of members!

The work here is about just the opposite of what it was in Hamilton. I NEVER had to track in Hamilton because we had so much work to do and people to see. Here, especially this week, all we did was tract and knock on doors. Definitely a new experience for sure. Wednesday and Friday were 2 of the worst. We would walk 5 hours straight and NO ONE would be home and no one would let us in and when I would get home at night I wouldn't be able to walk because my knee and feet were like HUGE! haha it was pretty funny, but i'm getting used to it. Still smiling and bright spirits as always :) I'm enojoying Bozeman so far, but definitely missing Hamilton, but i'm searching for those that are ready for us to teach here!

We had a baptism this past Saturday! His name was T. Such an awesome guy! He is a pro rider for like motocross and stuff. Basically a freestyle rider and can do and ride just about anything with wheels! His best friend C. met him 4 years ago in math class here on campus and then he left on his mission and came back. T was interested so C. taught him pretty much and then the missionaries reviewed with him and he was baptized Saturday! Also we have another baptism coming up in about a week and a half. A woman starting coming back to church and wanted her son to get baptized. So the missionaries had been teaching him and we taught him the last lesson this week and will be baptized on probably April 1! I'm so excited and he is so pumped to be baptized. His dad is not a member but so supportive of his decision and I think pretty soon will have a desire to come to church and do the same. They are an awesome family!

Well my new companion is Elder Holbrook. He is from Colorado. He is a convert and has such a sweet testimony and story of how he joined the church. Basically he is the ONLY member of his family and his parents and brothers weren't too fond with his decision. He keeps me entertained for sure and we get along great! haha To sum it all up he is a punk rocker! haha Had the huge mohawk and wore skinny jeans and all this other stuff. I love him and he brings a whole new perpsective of the gospel for me to look at which I love!

Also we visited this less-active woman wayyyy out in the woods with Brother B who is resently married with a 16 month old who we had dinner with that night, and she wants us to come over for dinner, but says I have to bring a recipe for some Texas pulled pork! So mom if you could find that pork recipe, I think Aunt Marti? or someone has that made that AWESOME pork that one time and send it to me that would be AWESOME!!!!!

Well i'm doing great here and just went grocery shopping! Got some good healthy stuff for sure! I could use some stamps but that's about it. Or some HEALTHY snacks, no sugar please, I haven't had ANY sugar for like 4 weeks now! I can't even remember how long it's been! haha Ridiculous!

Well I love y'all all! Hope to hear from y'all soon!

-Elder Parr
DO WORK!

Friday, March 18, 2011

going to BOZEMAN!

SO... as y'all have heard so far from people here and from facebook, I'm leaving Hamilton and being transferred to Bozeman, MT. My new address is:

8490 Lookfar Way
Bozeman, MT 59715

This week has been an amazing one for sure!

Monday was spent in Missoula with the rest of our Zone playing basketball, speed ball, hockey and sardines. I made a SILLY decision right when we got there too, that put me takin' it easy for most the time. Haha! I was the only one on the court and decided I would just jump up on the stage like I always do. Until I was halfway off the ground and realized their stage was a good 3 inches taller! Nailed both my knees on the stage and then both my shins on the way down. Immediate bruises! Haha! Not good. I still wrecked in basketball though and yes, wore my brace (always wear that around elders here!) and had fun. Although it was painful and I had a crick in my neck from wrestling with Elder Mudge Haha. He is a BEAST!

Throughout the week we taught many lessons and taught some new people we hadn't taught before which was great! Hamilton is on FIRE right now! It's been such a joy to start my mission off here and to have had the opportunity to teach and find so many great people here in the valley!

Well, Friday I got the call I had been waiting to get to find out if I was being transferred and I was! I was very sad at the thought of having to leave Hamilton after all the work i've been able to do here. I began to look back on all the things I was able to accomplish and do! I couldn't help but smile and be grateful for the opportunity and time the Lord allowed me to serve here. I guess 4 1/2 months in your greenie area isn't too common so I was grateful for ALL the moments I was able to have here. The following days we still tried to teach as much as we could, but was mainly saying my goodbyes. I can't tell you how many people i've met here and grown to LOVE so much! It seems no one here wants to let me leave haha. When missionaries say that they love the people they serve they aren't lying. Leaving Hamilton and saying goodbye was just like when I had to say goodbye to y'all when I left for the MTC. I love and care about them so much and now have to move to somewhere else. You really don't realize what you have until you have to leave it for sure! I will say we have PLENTY of houses to stay at when we come visit as a family!!!! Just about everyone was like, "When you come back the door is open, you don't even have to knock! You're welcome back ANYTIME!" So we won't have to get a hotel here ;) haha


It's heartbreaking, but i'm excited about going to BOZEMAN! I've heard great things so far and my new companion will be Elder Holbrook, or something like that. haha They really haven't told me much. We're headed up to Missoula today again and I will leave for Bozeman Tuesday morning I believe. Although i'm leaving i'm SOOOOOO pumped for who is replacing me! Elder Gooodwin, the big poly who was in my district in the MTC, will be replacing me! He is like my other brother and we're real close so i'm SO excited for him! I guess his last area wasn't that great so i'm stoked for him to come here. He is a great missionary and is hilarious and super funny so he will do great here in Hamilton and keep up what we were able to start here!!! Elder Goodwin is my BOY! haha

I'm so excited to here how much is going on!

Well, I don't have much time left, but I am sending home a package once I get to Bozeman. I promise all of y'all will enjoy, especially the boys! So get excited! I will try to get it there before the week is over!
I hope all is going well and let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do for yall!
LOVE Y'ALL!
elder parr

Monday, March 7, 2011

PICTURES and VIDEOS!


UPS!



SnaggleTooth and..............................A little shepherding

Incognito



Perhaps a new hobby? Accordion fun!





Some fancy ice dancing.

The joy...is priceless

So transfers are this friday! I hope y'all are praying that I stay here in Hamilton! I LOVEEEE it here and have grown so close to the members and investigators and EVERYONE here! But of course, I will go wherever the Lord needs me!


So this week has been awesome!!! So much is going on here for sure! I guess I can tell you of an experience that I've had in which strengthened my testimony...


Missionaries have always spoke that thoughts just come into their head to go see someone and I've never had that exact experience, I would probably say ever, until this week. So we were driving into town and we were coming close to a house a few blocks away where I knew who they are and I had this thought, "Stop by their house." So of course I was like, nawww I will just see them at church. No biggie. Then I heard a second time, "Really go see them." And I said in my mind again, "no really it's cool. I will just see them tomorrow." Then the third time as we were approaching their house I heard, "Alright, but you REALLY should go visit them now." So I was like "Elder Willey stop here at this house!" So we had tried to stop by 3 times prior and they were never home. Just a less-active couple who has REALLY been struggling. We stopped and taught about fasting and he said he had a strong testimony of fasting, but she said she had no testimony of it whatsoever (also, first time she sat in with us to talk) So as we were leaving she walked us out and told us a little about what has been going on and said that she was going to take our message to heart and fast. She said it was exactly what she thinks she needs. Well, they didn't make it to church so i'm not sure exactly what happened but we plan to go back and see how things went.


It was just a testimony builder to listen to those promptings that we get! To not try to diminish them otherwise we will get fewer and fewer, but to ACT on those promptings from the spirit and then to thank God for them!


In fast and testimony meeting it seemed a lot of the messages were centered on families and it made me think about y'all back at home and how much I miss y'all and all the good times we had together! So I got up to bear my testimony (I do every fast sunday now!) and bore my testimony. The spirit was just so strong in both wards! It helped me realize how much y'all mean to me and how I want MY family to be later in life and for eternity. The lesson in Gospel Principles was even on Eternal Families! Such a great Sunday! Thank you for being such an awesome family! I told them that of course I miss y'all and think about y'all often, but what I was doing on my mission was bringing families together to enjoy the happiness and joy that my family and I have experienced! That the joy I receive serving and helping them is priceless and exactly what the Lord would have me do at this time!


So the L's are back home now! We had our second dinner at the S's last night and they showed up there and I was talking to Sister L and she was like, "Elder Parr, if you get transfered i'm going to die! You have to stay her through lambing season (March) to help me because i'm afriad no one else will! Tell your mission President that you can't leave yet, or EVER leave"! Haha!! I love Sister L and i'm looking forward to helping her lamb! That would be legit! Then I can be somewhat like the Miller's when they have all their goats! hahaha


Well i'm in Lolo now about to head to Missoula with the rest of the zone to play some ultimate frisbee!!!! OH, how i've missed playing that just about every Saturday!!!! I love y'all and hope all is well! Let me know if there is anything I can do for y'all!


LOVE YOU ALL!!!
-Elder Parr "J dizzle!" haha

The Principle of WORK

This is the follow-up letter that came during the week with the talk attached that he asked us to read for Family Home Evening. I wanted to share it with you, as well. ~mom

I want y'all to read this for FHE this coming week and talk about it. I'm so grateful for the work ethic I've been able to have and it started AT HOME! I hope Y'all will all have a great desire to do a little more and be a little better!
I LOVE Y'ALL SO MUCH! :) and as I always say, "DO WORK"!

I've realized the missionaries who know how to work, are successful. Those who don't, quite simply, "have a hard time" and feel their mission is "hard or slow". It's the same in life, too. Those who work and try to be their best succeed! Those who don't, complain and fail. So I hope y'all learn to work! And, of course, HAVE FUN WHILE WORKING!

I wish I could be there sitting on the couch with y'all at family home evening singing songs and having fun with y'all! Make sure you have it every week! ;)

-Elder Parr


*emphasized text by Elder Parr


More than 6,000 years ago, Father Adam received the commandment, “In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread.” (Gen. 3:19.)

Some 2,700 years ago, a Greek poet observed that “in front of excellence the immortal gods have put sweat, and long and steep is the way to it.” (Hesiod, Works and Days, 1. 287, as cited in John Bartlett, Familiar Quotations, 14th ed., Boston: Little, Brown and Co., 1968, p. 67.)

My young friends of the Aaronic Priesthood and you trainers of this great army of Christ, the principle of work has been taught from the foundation of the world. It is the bottom line of any forward motion of success. The frightening disappearance of work as a part of our basic ethic is alarming. We constantly hear the statements, “It’s too hard,” “Give me something easier,” “I want it now,” “I can’t wait that long” coming from our young people. The ugly disease of “nothing to do” is growing in epidemic proportions among us. It undermines the basic fabric of our nations. The prophet Ezekiel clearly defined iniquity as an “abundance of idleness.” (Ezek. 16:49.)

We are what we are as a people because our ancestors were not afraid of honest, hard work. Our forefathers understood the necessity of it; sheer survival demanded it. A common ingredient among all successful people is an understanding of what constitutes paying the price of success. Basic in that formula of paying the price is an inner gift of determination that “I’ll do whatever it takes.” That means, “I’ll work hard, with integrity, to achieve my goal.”

Hard work is a blessing of God. It involves going after it “with all your heart, might, mind and strength.” (D&C 4:2.) That alone is the difference between the average and the excellent.

Great athletes are hard workers. Points, rebounds, assists, tackles, goals, and home runs are all the result of long hours of painstaking practice and hard work. The bulk of that practice will always be on your own, away from the coach. Victory is brought to pass by one’s personal diligence and commitment to hard work. The view of a champion, and the glory that surrounds him, must never be overshadowed by the long process of becoming one. There is a time of preparation and a time of victory. The second mile of hard work is what makes the difference between the exhilaration of achievement and the acceptance of mediocrity.

While serving as a mission president, many times missionaries would say to me, “But President, I want baptisms now.”

My answer was then and always will be, “You must work hard, be diligent, be humble, and exercise your prayers of faith.”

Young men, are you spending too much time desiring what you want to be instead of establishing a course of discipline and working hard on what you are going to be? Sitting in a home one night with two of our missionaries, the challenge was issued to a young investigator to begin reading the Book of Mormon. His answer overwhelmed us as he sat in his recliner sipping from a twelve-ounce container from the corner convenience store. He said, “It’s too hard.”

Someone once said, “Thou, O God, [doth give us] all good things at the price of labor.” (David Hume, Human News; as cited in The Macmillan Book of Proverbs, Maxims, and Famous Phrases, sel. Burton Stevenson, New York: The Macmillan Co., 1948], p. 1331.)

This young man had felt the Spirit; but, alas, the seed was sown on stony ground, and he was not willing to work hard and pay the price to gain his individual testimony. We feared that evening that he may have made a decision that could jeopardize his eternal life by the statement, “It’s too hard.”

Among the saddest events for all mission presidents to observe elders and sisters coming into the mission field not having learned how to work. President Ezra Taft Benson gave us a powerful key in one of his addresses on missionary work: “One of the greatest secrets of missionary work is work! If a missionary works, he will get the Spirit; if he gets the Spirit, he will teach by the Spirit; and if he teaches by the Spirit, he will touch the hearts of the people and he will be happy. There will be no homesickness, no worrying about families, for [he will have] all [his] time and talents and interest … centered on the work of the ministry. Work, work, work—there is no satisfactory substitute, especially in missionary work.” (The Teachings of Ezra Taft Benson, Salt Lake City: Bookcraft, 1988, p. 200.)

There you have it, fathers and trainers of future missionaries. There you have it, my young friends who are now preparing for your missions and you who are currently serving. If you want to be successful, start with the bottom line of work. Recently we noticed a surge in baptisms in one of our missions. The mission president was asked the reason for the surge. He said, “Baptisms come from hard work. We must work smarter and much harder.”

The prophet Alma said it very well while glorying in the success of Ammon and his brethren. He said, “Behold, they have labored exceedingly.” (Alma 29:15.)

That is a pure definition of work.

Just over eight months ago, a monstrous hurricane swept into Florida. Jack Demaree of the Montgomery Alabama Stake and many like him drove over two thousand miles round trip, using their vacation time to assist the hurricane victims. He brought back an article from a Florida newspaper: “In hot, humid conditions Saturday, about 12,000 volunteers—including 9,000 Mormon church members from six states who brought chain saws, plywood and tar paper—swarmed into South Florida. … So many people [were] at work that only two hundred showed up Saturday morning for an outdoor prayer service … despite the … prediction that more than 5,000 would attend.” (Ocala, Florida, Sunday newspaper, 6 Sept. 1992.)

In my conversation with Brother Demaree about his experience, he said, “All I did was cut up trees that were blown down by the hurricane.”

Brethren, using that as an analogy, cutting trees is more important than thinking about cutting trees or planning to cut trees. We are becoming the world experts in meeting, thinking, planning, and organizing about working the work, but we need to do it. We need to work.

While many are sitting and saying and even shouting great swelling words of marginal effectiveness, hard-working Latter-day Saints will always be found diligently doing and delivering potatoes to their neighbors. Contrary to the belief of many, “Say” and “Sit” will never replace “Diligently Do.” When you accept an assignment or commit to work for someone, work for them. Your integrity to that commitment will follow you throughout life. Any group of young men in any quorum knows who the workers are—those hallowed, quiet few who simply know how to get it done. My young friends of the Aaronic Priesthood, say less and do more. Get it done.

I am so grateful for parents who taught me how to work. There was no option in our home. It was an absolute requirement.

Fathers of Zion, teach our youth the value of honest, hard work. There is no substitute, no other alternative. Be careful that you don’t train up couch potatoes. With all the advantages each of us desires to place before our children, be sure that undergirding all is the absolute of honest, hard work. Young men, learn it and do it. Let it become a part of you.

God lives, and I know it. This is his work, and he expects each of us to do it. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.